How to be Less Stupid
Everyone has their moments. Some are just ordinary stupid. Others achieve greatness.
Not all stupidity is created equal.
Four Flavors of Stupid:
#1. Stupid by neglect.
Sometimes dumb happens. You drive off with your coffee on the roof.
- Forgetful Stupid: Forgetting your anniversary.
- Lazy Stupid: Who needs instructions? Your new grill has parts left over after assembly.
- Distracted Stupid: Texting “Love you” to your boss.
#2. Stupid by intent.
This is premium-grade stupidity. You know better and go full steam ahead anyway.
- Defiant Stupid: “I know the sign says, ‘Wet Paint.’”
- Proud Stupid: Thinking you know how to do something you’ve never done.
- Spiteful Stupid: Quitting your job before you have another lined up.
#3. Stupid by emotion.
Feelings are fun. Until they’re painful.
- Angry Stupid: Storming out of a meeting and leaving your car keys on the table.
- Fearful Stupid: Deciding you’re going to die after googling your symptoms.
#4. Stupid by overthinking.
Sometimes you’re too smart for your own good.
- Paralysis Stupid: Holding six team meetings to decide where to put the new coffee machine.
- Overcomplicated Stupid: Creating a checklist for ordering pizza.
How to be Less Stupid:
#1. See yourself.
Find yourself in the above list. If you can’t, well…
#2. Pause.
When your brain screams, “DO IT NOW!” Count to five or at least two. People who pause look smart even if they’re stupid.
#3. Check for blind spots.
Ask: “Am I about to do this because I’m mad, lazy, or trying to impress someone?”
#4. Seek advice before you need it.
Talk to someone who has done it before. “I’m giving my first presentation, what are your suggestions?”
#5. Laugh at yourself.
It’s cheaper than therapy.
The most dangerous stupidity is thinking you’re immune to stupid.
Stay humble. Stay curious. Stay slightly suspicious of yourself.
What flavor of “stupid” seems most destructive to you?
What “less stupid” practice is most helpful to you?
If You Aren’t Dumb You’re Stupid
